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Private Guidance for Over-Functioning Women in Toxic Intimate Relationships

My work with women is not relationship therapy–it’s not fixing what’s broken.
It’s about closing the distance between what you know and what you keep tolerating; between insight and actively making the steps to free yourself.

I love to work with women who are strong and capable in many fields of life yet feel childlike powerless in love dynamics that drain or confuse them.
Yes, been there, done that.

There is a necessary in-between. A pause where you step away from the noise, so the next version of you can quietly arrive. This liminal phase, a temporary nothingness, is not exile.
It’s initiation. 

Closing the Integrity Gap

This is a two-month path of guided reflection and personal activation.
These two months bring clarity. We slow down enough to trace the mechanism: how your nervous system, thoughts and survival patterns keep feeding each other.

Through deep dialogue, reflection, and body-mind based practice, you’ll begin to interrupt that cycle. This work is above all practical: it shows you what’s really happening, and how to stop repeating it.

Investment: $2.400*
Two months of private guidance including six deep sessions and in-between reflection support.
Full details are shared upon enrollment.

* Three places per quarter are available at a reduced rate of $1,800 for women whose circumstances don’t stretch to the full investment. Get in touch to apply.

Activating the Deep Sustainable Shift 

For those ready to turn around their part in the dynamic, there is private mentorship in Greece. This is not about seeing anymore, it’s about change.
This one-on-one experience is for women who are emotionally exhausted, done with self-betrayal, and ready to reclaim their equilibrium. We integrate past and present, so your future decisions arise from integrity rather than survival.

We work in a remote mountain village at the foot of the Taygetos, Peloponnese—old, quiet, far from your daily life. That distance is the point: some patterns you can’t see from inside your own kitchen. There’s something about this place. Everyone who stays here feels it.

The days are built from nature, silence, movement, energy work, and effective dialogue, using ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy).
This is not a holiday and it’s not rest. It’s a return.

By invitation or request only. This is sacred work that calls both ways. I open just a few places each season for those ready to return to themselves. Individual investment and details are shared during our alignment call.

If you feel a spark inside right now, just follow it.
You can write me a short note or request an alignment call — whatever feels like the right first step.
I’ll personally respond, so we can sense together what’s next.

In their own words
Real experiences from women who chose to move forward with me, on a range of life questions. That coaching was before I focused my coaching on unhealthy partner dynamics.

My credentials

TRAINING & BACKGROUND
Trauma-informed ACT Coach • EFT Practitioner • Motivational Interviewing • SETUP Communication • Zhineng Qigong Trainer • BA in Journalism •

AUTHOR OF
When Things Don’t Come Naturally • A Poem Is Not Love ~Poems from the Frayed Edges of Codependeny (upcoming)•

FELLOW TRAVELERS
Byron Katie • Gabor Maté • Alan Watts • Thich Nhat Hanh • Alfie Kohn •.Tulku Lobsang • Jung • Deb Dana • Anthony de Mello • Pang Ming •  Russ Harris.

Each of them has shaped the way I see healing, consciousness, and the human condition.

VALUES
Integrity ~ Curiosity ~ Openness ~ (Self-)Compassion ~ Forgiveness.

Some of these values have been with me all my life — curiosity, integrity, openness — others I could only embrace after doing my own healing work. I see them as stepping stones, resting places in the stream of life.

Contact

+ 1 (850) 807 1018

Address

Postbus 1616

1014 ZC Amsterdam

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